People only listen because they can't shut their ears. With the widespread of social media today, well they can't shut you out without having that red notification number popping up on they're smartphone. (I do realise people can block you but that would be rude now wouldn't it) Coming to realisation the amount of times I've been caught guilty for ranting or ruining a person's day with the load of bullcow I carry along on my shoulders I totally understand how it can feel as an unpaid therapist. I personally enjoy hearing the problems of others, had a dream to be a psychologist once but my dear mother decided to pour acid on my dreams with the reason that I wouldn't be able to find a job. Well, moving on, it's just a fraction of people that just hate the constant pessimism of the world. They take you bullcow a few times and the rest is just them not being able to shut you out. Your thoughts are meaningless to them. In other words, they don't care what you're going through. It could be a loss of a loved one, a snap in a relationship or getting depressed. In conclusion, THEY DON'T CARE. Then why would they still talk to you, you might ask. Well they don't want to be the bad guy or be the potential cause of your suicide, that's why they stick to you for the few moments. so, my advice is, pick the right people you blurt you feelings out to, analyse and determine, be wise even in your times of desperate rage or depression.
Jane.
PS: I give credit to the people in life who have actually cared about my bullcow and have given me really great advice. I really do appreciate that from the bottom of my heart. So, thank you all very much for your time and effort.
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